You’ve separated. The mortgage is in both names. The arrears keep climbing. And every time you try to move forward with the lender, you hit the same wall: they can’t restructure the loan without your ex, and your ex won’t engage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If that sounds familiar, you’re likely feeling stuck in a situation you didn’t create and can’t seem to fix on your own. It’s an exhausting place to be, especially when there’s a home, and possibly children, in the picture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The important thing to know is this: there is a legal route forward that doesn’t require your ex’s cooperation. It’s called a Personal Insolvency Arrangement (PIA), and it’s designed for exactly this kind of impasse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When a mortgage is held jointly, both borrowers are individually and jointly liable for the debt. That means when a lender considers restructuring to help address outstanding arrears, whether that’s an Alternative Repayment Arrangement (ARA), a term extension, or a split mortgage, they typically need both parties to consent to the new terms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It isn’t the lender being difficult. It’s the mechanics of joint liability. If one borrower engages and the other doesn’t reply, doesn’t sign, or refuses to take part in the process, the lender’s standard restructuring channels stall. The paperwork sits. The arrears keep growing. And you’re left carrying the weight of a problem you can’t solve alone through that route.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For a lot of people, this is where the situation gets stuck for years, or the home becomes at risk of repossession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A Personal Insolvency Arrangement operates on a different principle. Rather than asking both borrowers to renegotiate together, a PIA addresses your personal liability for the debt, including your share of the joint mortgage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You propose a formal arrangement, prepared with your practitioner, that restructures your obligations. Your ex isn’t required to sign it. They aren’t required to agree to it. They don’t need to be at the table at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A PIA addresses your share of the debt. Your ex’s silence does not have to hold you back.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n That single fact changes what’s possible. It means the person who is willing to engage, willing to face the situation, and willing to work towards a resolution, can do so, even when the other party isn’t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is the part that isn’t widely understood, and it’s where a lot of people underestimate what’s actually available to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If a creditor votes against a PIA proposal, there is a court route that can, in certain circumstances, allow the arrangement to be approved anyway. The court’s role here isn’t to override the process for the sake of it. It’s specifically designed to protect people who are trying in good faith to reach a workable arrangement and keep their home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In practice, this means a creditor’s rejection isn’t automatically the end of the road. The court can weigh up whether the proposal is reasonable, whether it treats the creditor fairly, and whether it delivers a better outcome than the alternative, typically losing the home to repossession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Your Personal Insolvency Practitioner (PIP) will assess whether this route applies to your circumstances. It doesn’t fit every case, but it exists, and it’s part of what makes a PIA a genuinely powerful tool for people in your position.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Every situation is different, and outcomes depend on your income, your equity position, your creditor mix, and the specifics of your mortgage. But at a general level, a PIA can:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Your ex remains individually liable to the lender for their share of the joint mortgage. The PIA doesn’t remove their obligation, and it doesn’t require them to be part of it. Their relationship with the lender continues separately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A PIA is a formal legal solution, and it isn’t right for every situation. Eligibility depends on things like the size of the debt, your ability to make sustainable repayments going forward, and the specifics of your mortgage account.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Some people in this situation will benefit more from negotiating with the lender directly, if the lender is willing. Others may need to look at a Debt Settlement Arrangement or a different path entirely, depending on whether their debts are secured, unsecured, or mixed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n What matters is getting a proper assessment of your circumstances, from a PIP or MABS adviser, not making decisions in the dark. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you’re separated with a joint mortgage in arrears and you don’t know where to turn, a free initial consultation is a good place to start. It’s confidential, and there’s no obligation. We’ll listen to your situation, explain what options are actually open to you, and help you work out what makes sense from there, leaving you to decide the best route forward.<\/p>\n\n\n\nWhat if the lender doesn’t accept the proposal?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
What this could mean for you, practically<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Is a PIA the correct route for me?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Talk to a member of our team<\/h2>\n\n\n\n